After dating a series of emotionally unavailable fuck boys and doom swiping my life away on apps filled with normies and bots, I decided to try something new: make toilet-themed dating art to see if that improved my odds of finding love. I figure anyone who is willing to reply to a dating flyer in a porta potty is my kind of human.
About
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this real?
What is REAL? Am I a real 37 year old woman looking for love? Yes. Am I also an absurd artist who just wants to get a rise out of you? Yes.
Do you like, REALLY love porta potties or something?
Contrary to what you might think, I have never been into low brow potty humor. It’s gross. But I love weirdness, juxtaposition, and the element of surprise and porta potty art fits the bill.
What are you looking for?
Ideally, a male-bodied, long-term, monogamish, nesting partner to maybe/probably/I’m not 100% sure have babies with. However, I’ve been surprised by who I am attracted to before and I value new connections, so all are encouraged to apply if they’re interested in getting to know me.
Do you really have a ravioli tattoo?
Yes.
Are you actually your therapist’s favorite client?
My therapist is not legally allowed to say I am her favorite, but when asked, she did confirm that she REALLY likes me and when I sent her my Date a Prime-Mate flyer, she replied “LOVE THIS!!!!”. So, yes.
What’s Date a Prime-Mate?
The first iteration of this project. Learn more about it below.
Date a Prime-Mate
Date a Prime-Mate was created for a primordial soup-themed immersive art festival in June 2024. Participants were invited to reach out via contact information posted on flyers in porta potties and/or apply through a paper application station (next to a 6ft tall cardboard cut out of me). See the Data page for more info about how it went.
Sample Date a Prime-Mate Applications
